THANK YOU. Not just for being more articulate and good at summarising thoughts than I am, but also for letting me feel justified about this! The "homophobia is bad" message didn't fit in with the rest of the storyline, and I hate that Kurt is consistently painted as the better person when it comes to storylines like this, because he isn't. It doesn't matter that viewers can see that he's wrong, it matters that the show writers seem content with repeatedly giving him the upper hand in everything.

Yeah, it was rushed, but I've given up on complaining about how quickly things are dealt with on this show. :P

Have you seen those photos of Groff and Lea hanging around set while he's wearing the red lace stuff? That means THEY FILMED RACHEL/JESSE SCENES OR JESSE SCENES AND THEY WERE CUT! THIS IS NOT RIGHT, GLEE!! It's like that promo that magically appeared with an R/J kiss from Power of Madonna which we realised we weren't getting. You have Jonathan Groff. Why are we wasting time on homophobia?!?!